My Mum From Memory
I tried to save her but I just couldn’t get past the dark.
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I tried to save her but I just couldn’t get past the dark.
All I can do is support from an arm’s length. I’m a daughter, not a carer.
When somebody is given family support to heal, you must tell ourself that you were not the cause.
As I have got older I realise there is no shame to admit things are getting too much and asking for help.
The questions I had will never be answered. The answers I wanted will never be given.
I felt helpless. Everyone kept telling me ‘she needs to help herself’ but she wouldn’t get the help.
Although we got through those difficult times, the price we paid will never be refunded.
All I wanted was some normality, to not be scared to come home from school.
I feel guilty for feeling it and give myself a 1000 reasons not to be happy.
‘Mum’s addiction was nothing to do with me. But somewhere in my brain it’s still telling me, She did reject you.’
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