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As much as I miss you, I don’t miss the alcohol and perpetual cycle of despair.
All I can do is support from an arm’s length. I’m a daughter, not a carer.
If I could come and tell you one thing it would be this—IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT.
Dad came drunk to parents evening and argued with the mums’
When somebody is given family support to heal, you must tell ourself that you were not the cause.
As I have got older I realise there is no shame to admit things are getting too much and asking for help.
When he drank, he changed. I remember my mum describing him as a Jekyll and Hyde character.
Only one person could make the change with that relationship with alcohol, and it wasn’t me no matter how much I thought I could
The questions I had will never be answered. The answers I wanted will never be given.
It took so much for me to share our shameful secret, I thought they could just talk to my dad and it would all improve.
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