I believe she thought alcohol was the only way she could cope and she couldn’t live without it
My mother always drank but since we had never known anything different we never considered her an alcoholic.
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My mother always drank but since we had never known anything different we never considered her an alcoholic.
I hope mum, that you won’t be angry or upset with me sharing this.
If it’s only a tiny flicker, it is there and we can find something good in the most awful of happenings.
This whole episode in my life has caused me nothing but guilt and pain.
My mother drank heavily when she was pregnant with us.
Sometimes I feel relief that she is gone, relief that the merry go round I was on has finally stopped and will never start again. Guilt is the main emotion that has accompanied this relief
Just to hear about the disease in a non-judgmental way and to be heard can end years of isolation and be profoundly healing.
The point I want to make is that I don’t blame my dad anymore – he was ill – alcoholism is an illness.
I will never forget my past and what’s happened in my life. I just try and believe my mum and dad are at peace now and in a better place.
To anyone that has gone through a similar thing I would like to say: things get better, and don’t be afraid to ask for help.
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