I am sure that my husband has a drink problem. He drinks an enormous quantity of wine each weekend night but abstains during the working week when he holds down a good job. Each weekend evening, he drinks himself into a stupor. He isn’t violent but he is rude, insensitive and has an extremely short fuse. If we are out (obviously outside lockdown) he will fall asleep at the table or at friends’ houses. He gets angry if anyone tries to wake him up. I have tried, over and over, to explain how upsetting his behaviour can be for me and our child who is now starting to understand and cry about it. He won’t change his behaviour and I don’t think it’s ever going to get any better. If we go on holiday, he drinks every day. Christmas is a nightmare. We share a child and a house. We are able to give our child a comfortable life – if I take him to a small flat, his quality of life will be so damaged but, in my heart, I know it’s more damaging to keep him at home with his dad. If I take him away then he won’t see his dad as he isn’t safe to care for a child while he’s drunk. Do I need to leave for my child’s sake or is it in his best interests that I stay?