You are not your parent’s mistakes; you are the successor of them
I don’t hate my Mum anymore, I’m over the anger, I think what prevails is an overwhelming sense of sadness.
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I don’t hate my Mum anymore, I’m over the anger, I think what prevails is an overwhelming sense of sadness.
My sister and I have been the children of an alcoholic since we can remember.
I was seven years old, all on my own.
My mother always drank but since we had never known anything different we never considered her an alcoholic.
I hope mum, that you won’t be angry or upset with me sharing this.
If it’s only a tiny flicker, it is there and we can find something good in the most awful of happenings.
This whole episode in my life has caused me nothing but guilt and pain.
My mother drank heavily when she was pregnant with us.
Sometimes I feel relief that she is gone, relief that the merry go round I was on has finally stopped and will never start again. Guilt is the main emotion that has accompanied this relief
Just to hear about the disease in a non-judgmental way and to be heard can end years of isolation and be profoundly healing.
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