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    • Reflection of my youth

      You may have influenced me to believe I'm inherently wrong. There's a whole lot of shame being carried that never belonged to me. You took your load and passed it on, I felt it in...

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      Posted by: tm19x
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    • At my wits end

      My mum is in her early 60s and has been an alcoholic for over 20 years. She has been to rehab twice and started drinking immediately when she left. People keep saying ‘she needs to hit...

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      Posted by: nw5
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    • Unsure what to do next

      Hi. Read a few messages and it is reassuring to hear people with similar feelings but it still doesn't feel good. My dad is going round in circles with alcohol, being admitted to hospital after being...

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      Posted by: sunbear123
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    • My dad died of alcoholism

      Hey there, My dad died mid-2023 as a result of alcohol poisoning. He was in his late 50s and had struggled with parts of himself and parts of life, using alcohol as a coping mechanism,...

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      Posted by: asdfghj
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    • Alcoholic dad

      I have a father who has been drinking alcohol ever since I can remeber. He is in his 50’s and it’s getting worse and worse I don’t know when his last day will be,...

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      Posted by: girlinsmallworldd
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    • Advice needed

      Hi all, Bit of a long one. Both my parents are alcoholics and I have 5 brothers and sister who have all struggled with alcohol and mental health. Because of my home life getting too much...

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      Posted by: irish
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  • Alcohol Abuse Mother
    Hi all, this is my first time posting here and feel a bit nervous about it. My mother has a really bad drinking problem. She…
  • Saying hello, as a system who grew up with an alcoholic mum
    We've been meaning to post something here for ages, but we decided we'll finally take some time and say hello. So, hey world, we're the…
  • Korsakoffs/alcohol induced dementia
    It's been a heavy day, as my 87-year old dad who has been an alcoholic all his life is now suffering (although undiagnosed) with most…
  • My Mum passed away
    Hi, First time on here so please bear with me. My mum just passed away on the 24th September and I'm so devastated. My mum…
  • Alcoholic Mother
    Hi, sorry for the long message ahead. For context I live in a multi-generational household, where my parents basically act like they are divorced but…

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  • Hi checkeredthistle, Thank you for taking the time to share. This sounds really tough, and I just want to remind you that you’re not alone.…
    marble on Alcohol Abuse Mother
  • Hi Riders and Racer’s system, Welcome to the message boards! I’m so glad you’ve posted and I do hope that you can all find some…
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  • Hi checkeredthistle, It's so positive that you are reaching out on these message boards. It's understandable that it is nerve-racking, as you are sharing something…
    listener on Alcohol Abuse Mother
  • Hi I hope that some of the suggestions in the previous reply were helpful. It is so important that you look after yourself so that…
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  • Hi I'm so sad to read your story. The sudden death of your mum must be such a shock. Plus the grief at the situation…
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