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    • 77 year old father won’t change

      Hi, I grew up with two high functioning alcoholic parents well certainly dependant. Lots of embarrassing incidents at parties and family events. I spent most weekends and school holidays with either set of grandparents...

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      Posted by: worried1972
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    • Feeling a bit helpless

      It was the anniversary of my mum's death on Monday (16 years) I said I wasn't so sad but I guess I am but also grieving my dad who is an alcoholic too. Went...

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      Posted by: tm19x
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    • Poem I wrote… Father’s Day 2020

      Once upon a time Once upon a time I had a father Another story you may rather This one is for those who have lived through A parent that you wish you knew Let's start before the beginning When in...

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      Posted by: pearl
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    • Elderly Alcoholic Parent

      My mum is now in her ealry 70's, I am in my early Growing up with a younger sibling in a single parent household- my mum was a functioning alcoholic. Since she retired...

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      Posted by: lizzym
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    • Parenthood and impostor syndrome

      I look around me and see women I really know and respect have amazing relationships with their children (real relationships, not social media ones), despite working full time like I do. They are...

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      Posted by: onthemerrygoroundagain
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    So my mum has been a functional alcoholic since I can remember. When I was a teenager I moved in with my grandparents as her…
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  • Reaching out
    My partner has been sober for a while however he is no longer worker. I went to work one day and came back and I…
  • Alcoholic and manipulator MOTHERS
    Anyone here with alcoholic and masterly manipulative mother? I know some alcoholics are clumsy and ‘fun’ but mine was and is so evil when drunk…
  • Reaching out
    Hey so I'm new here and this is the first time I think I have ever shared my experience, partly because I'm the youngest of…

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  • This doesn't sound harsh. It sounds like a necessary boundary after years of being hurt and let down. You are protecting yourself and your two…
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  • Hi, Thank you so much for sharing here on the message boards. I’m so sorry to read about the situation you’re having to navigate with…
    listener on Cutting off my mum
  • Hi Florence, Thank you so much for sharing here. I’m really glad that you posted, I know others here will understand. You’re not alone, truly.…
    listener on Mother with Liver Failure
  • I’m so sorry you have had to survive not just the alcoholism, but abuse and manipulation from your mother. You're right people do struggle to…
    butterfly583 on Alcoholic and manipulator MOTHERS
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