Every pothole of my ACOA journey was worth it to see my incredible girls grow
We never went without food, clothes, necessities, but we did go without guidance.
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We never went without food, clothes, necessities, but we did go without guidance.
I don’t think you ever recover from growing up with an alcoholic parent. What is interesting is how far you go to hide it.
Us 3 lived on the pub doorsteps with bottles of lemonade sent out every hour.
I have tried every trick in the book to get my dad to go and get help.
I don’t hate my Mum anymore, I’m over the anger, I think what prevails is an overwhelming sense of sadness.
One day I’d like to think that I will become a survivor, rather than always being the victim.
She is like the poem “When she was good, she was very, very good. But when she was bad she was wicked”.
Alcohol caused me to lose the only things that have ever really mattered to me – my three super girls.
‘Probably from the age of about six I knew what alcohol was.’
Sometimes I feel relief that she is gone, relief that the merry go round I was on has finally stopped and will never start again. Guilt is the main emotion that has accompanied this relief
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