The second he admits he has a drinking problem, then it becomes real
I have tried every trick in the book to get my dad to go and get help.
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I have tried every trick in the book to get my dad to go and get help.
I don’t hate my Mum anymore, I’m over the anger, I think what prevails is an overwhelming sense of sadness.
One day I’d like to think that I will become a survivor, rather than always being the victim.
She is like the poem “When she was good, she was very, very good. But when she was bad she was wicked”.
Alcohol caused me to lose the only things that have ever really mattered to me – my three super girls.
‘Probably from the age of about six I knew what alcohol was.’
Sometimes I feel relief that she is gone, relief that the merry go round I was on has finally stopped and will never start again. Guilt is the main emotion that has accompanied this relief
Just to hear about the disease in a non-judgmental way and to be heard can end years of isolation and be profoundly healing.
The point I want to make is that I don’t blame my dad anymore – he was ill – alcoholism is an illness.
To the world outside everything was fine, a normal middle class family.
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