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    • Cry for help

      My mum has drank for as long as I can remember but I’d say the last 6/7 years it has got worse and she starts drinking about 12/1pm it has been 11am before!!! I...

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      Posted by: alwayshere
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    • A letter I never sent.

      A letter I wrote months ago but felt I could never send… I know that no matter how much I beg and plead and wish for you to see that your life is valuable, that...

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      Posted by: dreamcatcher
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    • I just need to say something

      I remember my dad's alcoholism from the age of 15. He was obviously drinking before but it had been hidden. I'm an only child, sort of, it's all down to me to check in...

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      Posted by: bear
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    • There are no words

      I have been dealing with my mum's alcoholism all my life and as much as I try and convince myself I don't want my mum's support, I do. It seems really counterintuitive to spend...

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      Posted by: katy996
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    • Is my dad lying to me?

      I used to see my dad every other Saturday until one time. I came to his house (where we usually meet) and he wasn't there. Me and my mum tried everything ; we tried...

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      Posted by: lpanda
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Recent topics

  • Feeling hopeless and angry
    Think like many others, I’ve come here for a bit of an offload. My mum was hospitalised last night from falling down the stairs drunk…
  • Hello, glad to meet you…
    Hi everyone, I just wanted to take the time to introduce myself to this wonderful group. I am a man in my early 30s who…
  • Exasperated Son
    Hi, not sure where to start and thinking I’ll need 1000+ pages to convey all that’s going on and how it’s making me feel. I’m…
  • Father starting to recover but it’s not enough
    My father has been an alcoholic most of my life and is finally starting to attempt recovery, but it feels like too little too late.…
  • Explaining alcoholism to children
    Hi there, I have a 5 year old and a 3.5 year old. Their dad is an alcoholic and is not in contact. I have…

Recent replies

  • Hi, It's understandbale that you feel frustrated by this, it's been going on for pretty much as long as you can remember. Still having to…
    listener on Exasperated Son
  • Hi welcome you have come to the right place to offload, these message boards are full of kind, helpful, understanding people who know what you…
    listener on Feeling hopeless and angry
  • I am so sorry that your Mum is making herself so unwell and having awful shocking accidents. It's a lot for you and your dad…
    catswithbells on Feeling hopeless and angry
  • Hi, and thank you so much for sharing. I’m so sorry to hear of how long you have been struggling. I’m also so glad that…
    listener on Hello, glad to meet you…
  • Great to have you with us. We can all identify with the pain and long term scars that having an alcoholic parent brings. I hope…
    catswithbells on Hello, glad to meet you…

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